About Me
You and I have a lot in common. For starters, we’ve been through one of the toughest things people go through....divorce. Another thing we have in common is that we have busy lives with careers and hobbies and some of us kids. Finally, and most importantly, we both don’t want to settle for mediocrity, we want to become better versions of ourselves.
My Story
I had a pretty traditional upbringing. I was raised in Texas to a great family, went to college at Texas A&M, and started my career in large commercial construction in California. After overcoming a lay off during a poor economy, I met a girl in my mid 20’s and couldn’t picture my life without her, so I married her. After 2 kids and 7 years we divorced….it’s unfortunate but half of marriages end in divorce and we as men usually get a pretty raw deal out of it.
Instead of getting down on my circumstances I used newfound time during that big life transition as an opportunity to become a better version of myself. I did a lot of reading, writing, and reflecting. I went to therapy (which is something I encourage every man to consider. I know as men we have a lot of pride but seeking help when needing it is a very manly thing). I started watching YouTube videos on dating, starting working out like a mad man, and pondered what side hustles I could do to keep myself busy and productive.
I think there’s a lot of untapped strength and power in getting like-minded, high value men connected around the challenges we face. Our goal is to give you content that expedites your growth and ultimately help you reach your potential as a man. Today is the first day of the rest of your life. Are you going to spend it on the couch sulking or are you going to have the self-discipline to create the life you’ve always wanted?